Maybe you're trying too hard

Have you hear or come across someone who makes use of the opposite sex to make him or her get over something or rather someone?

Well. . .i have com across such people. Believe me they exist.

Personally i feel that it is somehow evil, selfish. . . I mean to me. . . don't you believe in karma? don't you think that it is not a good idea to hurt others eventhough you're emotionally down, depressed and whatever not?

To me . . . it is okay to mingle around but it is not okay to use the opposite sex to get over something or someone. It is just a no no thing. Maybe you are trying too hard.

Let me be frank here. . well hey at least i'm honest and i'm saying what and how i feel about this. Base on what I am going through and with all sorts of guys welcoming me one after another I still don't have the heart to do what "normal" people will do. (PSST! RIGHT KHAD? thats if you're reading). That is to get rid of the "like" or "love" feeling for that idiot by using another guy. Well. .at least I'm abnormal in a good sense and that my conscience is clear.

But . . . this you must agree with me. . .no matter how hard you try to get of it or the person. . you will never get over it or the person. It is for one main reason; YOU ARE TRYING TOO HARD. STOP BEING HARD ON YOURSELF. Well this only applies if you really love that something or someone and i mean true love and not those puppy love.

At times, you will just have to let nature take its course. You can't possibly force yourself to like or love another guy just for the sake of getting over "IT".

You just have to learn how to let go using the "natural" method and not the "forceful method".

You have to erase all the negativity and stay positive and STRONG! If malaysia bole ofcourse you pon boleh kan kan kan?

But i guess. .both parties must have their own level of ego. .
The ego. . .that somehow made things are how things are right now.

Oh my. . now. . i sound like a love therapist. *giggles.