Men in general. . .

Why do men in general find it hard to look up, face her, look into her eyes and say whatever that is in his heart? Why do some guys decide to call it defeat without even trying?

A piece of advice. . . express it while you still can and don't leave with regrets. You can never know when your love ones, your crush, your secret admirer, your special someone may take their leave. . .their leave to another world that we can never imagine.

Expressing the "feeling" can be done it some many ways. It can be like the old and classic way that is through poems, songs, words, actions. But it is not all about expressing them, but it is all about the meaning to it. Whatever you do stop hiding and just do it before it's too late. It is okay for men to be rejected but not for women.

Guys may think that its denger bias. But hey. . . .women are supposed to be shy and what not. Besides the fact that we are shy till now, I still stand by the malay saying "Timba cari perigi bukan perigi carik timba." It means, the bucket looks for the well and not the well that looks for the bucket. Call me old fashion, but it is not "sweet" or rather "nice" for a women to run and chase after guys telling them what to do feel inside out. It is not all about the ego that we have but it is all about dignity.

and. . .men out there. . .wake up. . .we are not there to wait for long. . remember age and mirror are women's worst enemies.

the next issue relating to men in general. . .
I'm not pious but hey. . . i must say that god has to be fair to "match" couples are "clean" or rather "good" in his on definition and vice versa.
Well, personally. . .no offence. . .it wouldn't be fair to have a couple who is "clean" and the other who is not clean would it? I am aware that all humans are not perfect and humans are prone to make mistakes. But where and how do we draw the line? Think about it. .